Holiday Survival Guide for New Couples: Tips from Our Urban Venue

Emotional Health Tips

The holidays are a chance to build your own story. With a focus on communication, self-care, and a sprinkle of fun, you can make this season memorable. Embrace the joy of your new life together and enjoy every moment!

1. Talk it Out  

   Communication is everything. Share your thoughts and feelings as the holiday chaos unfolds. A quick check-in can save you from misunderstandings.

2. Know Your Limits 

   Family traditions can feel overwhelming. It’s okay to say no. Focus on what matters to you both and set boundaries when needed. Feel free to celebrate beyond just one or two gatherings and let the whole season be a celebration.

3. Make Time for You  

   Don’t forget self-care. Carve out moments to chill, whether it’s a cozy night with takeout, a quiet walk or read some Sarah J. Maas. Recharge together.

4. Manage Expectations

Often the hype leading up to an event gets us more excited than the actual event. Be aware of this dynamic so you can learn to ground yourself in each moment.

Cheeky Fun Tips

1. Start Your Own Traditions

   Ditch the pressure of fitting into family molds. Create your own fun rituals—think quirky movie nights or unique holiday recipes that scream “you.”

2. Photo Challenge  

   Kick off a lighthearted photo challenge! Snap silly pics or recreate classic holiday scenes. It’s a fun way to document your first season together.

3. Gift Some Laughter  

   Give each other a funny gift—something that cracks you up. A quirky ornament or a ridiculous holiday sweater can keep the mood light.

Bonus: Satirical Tips (not to be taken too seriously)

1. The “In-Law Olympics”  

  Get ready for the ultimate competition: surviving family gatherings! Channel your inner athlete and prepare for events like “Sitting through Awkward Small Talk” and “Fielding Unsolicited Parenting Advice.” Gold medals go to those who leave the dinner table without rolling their eyes.

2. The “Family Bingo”

Create bingo cards filled with classic family cliches, and every time you hear one during your gathering, mark it off.

3. Resolution Roulette

Write up some ridiculous resolutions ideas that can be accomplished during the holidays and have each friend or family member draw from them, such as, “Watch Home Alone Four” or “Drink every time someone says, “You’ll shoot your eye out” in A Christmas Story” or “Wear a ‘Buddy the Elf’ costume out for dinner.”

Merry Christmas X Happy Holidays from The Delaware Events team.